-its ur choice...

i read a post by a friend of mine regarding some matters that happened in his life... he stated that no matter how positive you are, the facts of life still and always be the facts of life.. well, its true dude, we can't change whatever we received and by hook or by crock we have to accept it kan.. and its our choice to whether we want to keep on dwelling with regret of it or we view it the other way round.. we rarely get what we want to -thats a fact.. and to be able to perceive whatever it is in a much positive manner well for me will change the whole idea.. like my lec said: we are the drive of our own car, not our parents nor our friends.. whatever happen along the way, we are the one who will deal with it.. we can opt whatever choices we that lies in front of us.. imagine, if our car is stranded at the side of the road because of some damn engine problem; we can choose either to just sit and don't give a damn of it or we can try to check whatever stuff we can do to fix it.. its our choice..

some "facts of life" may not be that great for some people.. well, all people have their own stories of sorrow, of joy and etc and its how they view it that make all the differences.. life is a journey they say, so deal with whatever misfortunes along the way in an appropriate way.. people may laugh to some of those so called positive minded people but that wouldn't hurt them a bit coz they view it differently.. so dude, this is my point of view.. our ideas maybe different but that what makes our life richer.. so cheers...

"happiness isn't about what happens to us, it's about how we perceive what happens to us. It's the knack of finding a positive for every negative and viewing a setback as a challenge. If we can just stop wishing for what we don't have and start enjoying what we do have, our lives can be richer, more fulfilled and happier The time to be happy is now!"
~chicken soup~

last but not least, miss rabiah is never wrong in saying always look on the bright side of life, her quotes in fact has influenced my life a lot.. so now, let me ask you a question; a half empty glass of water or a half full glass of water?