some people think that everything can be resolves via physical items...
when we are having some trouble in the relationship,
they think that when they buy us things, the problems settle...
hello... they think they can buy our heart, our joy, our emotion.. wtf...
yeah.. i admit that is the first step in fixing the problem,
but if they just focus on the items but not the matter of the heart,
actually that is the crux of the problem...

i hate uncertainties.. if you love something, you love them sincerely...
if you hate something, well by all means just hate it..
don't ever "b'diri atas pagar" and ignoring the facts of the real situation...
be realistic la..

they say that trust is the most vital important part of the relationship..
what is a relationship then if there's no trust..
some take for granted, some keep it to death..
life.. that's what they call it...
the question is which one are we??
there's one part in the korean drama i saw; my lovely kim sam soon..
the guy said when you involve in a relationship it depends on your body hormones..
at certain time it will all decrease and the relationship will eventually colapses..
the girl then reply i don't give a damn thought of the hormon stuffs (words of my creation only he2).. she said once she engaged in a relationship, she'll hold on to it till the end, though her body
is lacking of protein to make new hormones..
yeah.. that's the spirit girl..hoho...

so, in this post i'm a bit emo.. though the saying goes; don't worry, be happy...
got something to share here;


Love One Another
Love one another, but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup, but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread, but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone.
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together.
For the pillars of the temple stand apart.
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Khalil Gibran